Teaching Kids to Spot and Report Inappropriate Content
As a parent and as guardians, how many times have you scrolled through the internet or social media and come across something completely inappropriate like nudity, rude language, or violent behavior? Now, imagine your child holding the very device you gifted them, the one that connects to that same internet. Ask yourself this: Are they properly equipped to handle such content if they stumble on it? Do they know what to do if they see it?
The internet is both beautiful and dangerous. It’s a place to explore, learn, and connect, but it can also expose children to harmful, mind-numbing, and sometimes disturbing content. These images, videos, or messages can easily be burned into a child’s developing mind, shaping how they see the world and themselves.
That’s why, as parents, we can’t just hand over a device and hope for the best. We have to teach them exactly how to recognize inappropriate content and respond confidently.
The First step is to define what’s “Not Okay”
Children don’t always know where the line is, so draw it clearly. Explain that inappropriate content includes:
- Violence or graphic harm
- Sexual or nude images
- Mean or bullying messages
- Anything that makes them feel scared, uncomfortable, or confused
Parent Tip: Use age-appropriate examples and language. What’s “scary” or “adult” for a 7-year-old may be different from what’s inappropriate for a 13-year-old.
The Second Step is to Teach them the “Stop and Share” Rule
This simple, Two-step habit makes it easier for kids to react in the moment:
- Stop: Close or pause what they’re watching/reading.
- Share: Tell a trusted adult right away.
Parent Tip: Practice with role-play. Give your child a pretend “bad content” scenario so they can practice the steps in a safe, lighthearted way.
The third step is to "Remove the Fear of Telling"
Many kids don’t speak up because they fear losing their devices or getting in trouble. Teach them that if they see something, they should say something to you.
As a parent or guardian, you have to help your kids let go of the unnecessary fear of you. Try not to overreact even when it is difficult to do so. Keep calm. Let YOU be the first person your child runs to. Tell them clearly:
“You will never be in trouble for telling me about something inappropriate you saw. You’re helping keep yourself safe.”
Parent Tip: Praise honesty every time they come to you, even if the content seems small. Positive reinforcement builds trust.
Extra Ways to Support Your Child’s Digital Safety
- Parental Controls: Use them as a layer of safety, not as the only defense. According to their ages, put the appropriate parental controls on your device. Protect your child.
- Set Up Reporting Tools Together: Show them how to report inappropriate content on apps and games.
- Regular Digital Check-ins: Keep conversations about online life open, casual, and ongoing. Avoid paranoia; this could kill the joy of the amazing things the internet has to offer.
Action Step you can take this Week
Schedule a 10-minute family talk about the “Stop and Share” rule. Role-play a few examples, ask your child what they would do, and remind them you’re always there to help, no matter what.